Feng shui is a harmonizing of energies concept that originates from China. This is the use of the energy around to solve issues that an individual may face.
Feng Shui is not a religion; hence anybody who desires peace and harmony in their space can use it. You can use Feng Shui to improve different areas of your life, including relationship problems.
Relationships especially love ones center around the bedroom. The two people in a relationship mostly connect on a deeper level through intimacy.
That doesn’t mean that the bedroom is the only place that one can get their groove on if you know what I mean, but it is usually associated with this type of relationship. You should do the following in your bedroom or love corner
Clean -up
A cluttered bedroom or area can have adverse effects on a person. The bedroom is where you want to have some serenity and peace.
However, if you have clutter everywhere you look, it may cause chaos in your energy, causing chaos within you. Be intentional about putting things where they should be, like clean clothes in the closet.
Dirty clothes should be in the laundry basket in the laundry area. If the dirty clothes have to be in the same room as your bed, then have a lid to put on the laundry basket.
You should also clean up your bedroom literally. That means changing the beddings often, scrubbing the floors, or vacuuming the carpet. You should also ensure enough light during the day, and the air is circulating properly in your bedroom.
If you have things from a previous relationship, then it is recommended that you get rid. If a previous relationship had good things that you don’t want to let go of, keep them in your heart. Carrying some past issues into a new relationship can bring negative energy within your space.
Think In Twos
Your love area or bedroom should reflect that two people share that space. This means that you should strive to get things in pairs like two table lamps, two candles, two pillows, two towels in the bathroom, etc.
This Feng shui will attract the positive energy of you and your lover being together. Remember, your thoughts are very powerful.
Add Some Color
You may be a person who doesn’t like color, and everything you own revolves around black and grey, but that may affect your relationship negatively.
The pink color is considered a love color in Feng Shui. You can find ways to have touches of pink, however small. If pink is a color that you don’t flow with, then white and red will do.
Get some portraits with these colors and put them on your bedroom wall. Refrain from putting pictures of lonely people on your bedroom walls or storms. Such artwork may be exquisite but invokes a certain feeling in the bedroom that Feng Shui doesn’t support.
It is also important to note that Feng Shui doesn’t support putting g up photos of loved ones in the bedroom, especially while facing your bed directly. You can also play around with your bed linens in these shades of colors.
Remove Mirrors From The Room.
Most people love to have mirrors in the bedroom. However, Feng Shui considers this as a bad thing. One of the reasons that mirrors are not advisable in the bedroom is because they are reflective.
If there is bad energy in the room, that is reflected on you while you are asleep. This can make your mind active throughout the night while you are supposed to be sleeping, hence relaxing the body and mind.
Remove Any Distractions In Your Love Corner.
Your bedroom or love corner is supposed to be a place where you connect with your lover; hence anything that can distract them or yourself should be removed.
Such items include TVs, board games, computer games, etc. Doing so enables you to talk about your day. Take the opportunity to hold your partners hands. Look in their eyes and fall in love over and over again with each other.
If there is an issue that is troubling one of you, they are bringing it up when they have your undivided attention. If that is not enough, you can make love without interruptions, uniting your energies.
Remove Plants In Your Bedroom.
It is known that having plants in your bedroom can be risky since they tend to fight for air with humans.
Feng Shui dictates that having plants in your bedroom brings about yang. This is the vibrant energy in Chinese culture, while an individual should have the yin (calmer energy) at night.
No Working Desk In The Bedroom
At the moment, the world has embraced the digital space, and many people are working from home. However, your workstation should not be in your bedroom or love corner.
The energy and alertness needed when a person is working shouldn’t be invited to a place where peace and relaxation are desired. You should note that work and love usually clash most of the time.
Work Out Gear And Pieces Of Equipment Shouldn’t Be In The Bedroom
Just as work can bring about the yang energy in the bedroom, so does exercise equipment. Even if you think that rolling out of bed and onto your treadmill is the easiest thing to do, it is not suitable for your relationship. Find a different room where you can keep everything, not in your bedroom.
Conclusion
Feng Shui has been practiced for thousands of years with very positive feedback. If you face trouble in your relationships, you should try some Feng Shui.
Have a positive mindset and see some change. Have symbols of pictures of places that you would love to visit together as a couple around. Every time you see it will bring warmth to your heart.
It will make you work harder towards making your relationship work. Trying out the art of Feng Shui will bring harmony to a lot of areas in your life not just relationships alone. Come on, try it today.
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