Email: Nancy268@***.com
Hello, I’m trying to figure out why I keep having the same dream for the past 3-4 nights in a row ( she passed this past November).
It involves my Aunt (godmother) and the last day she was alive. I can’t remember everything about the dream but I do remember that she is laying in a hospital bed and isn’t speaking ( which is how she was).
I wasn’t there but my mother was and she let me talk to her to let her know how sorry I was that I wasn’t there, ( due to work and not really wanting to see her like she was then) how much she means to me and that I loved her dearly.
At the time I didn’t know for sure that was her last day so I told her to please fight and get better and that if she did we would go do some of her favorite things as well as get her favorite foods.
Yes I feel guilty that I wasn’t there, that I didn’t just suck it up and go be with her. I regret it in a way everyday.
I did read on your page about the meaning of dreaming of a dying loved one but I didn’t know if this was the same thing as you were saying (especially since I keep having it).
If you are able to give me any information, interpretation or point me in the right direction I would be ever so greatful.
This is driving me nuts since I has happened more than one night. Like is she mad I wasn’t there or what? UGH!!!
Thank you again in advance.
Answer:
Dear Nancy, AloDreams understands that you are feeling guilty because you were not with your Godmother in the last day she was alive.
You know, life is unpredictable. We can see your sincere feelings for your Godmother and we believe she understands that too.
There is no way your mother is mad because you were not there before she died. You were so eager to be there, wanted her get better and promised to do her favorite foods.
You tried but sometimes we have to accept that life is unforeseen. Nobody wants bad things to happen.
You keep having the same dream for several times shows that you are very sorry and you are obsessed with it.
Maybe before your Aunt died, she wanted to see you but didn’t make it. You miss her very much. You really are a good person and love her sincerely.
According to the concept of the Orient, dreaming about deceased a loved one is a premonition that you will be lucky, you will be blessed in life.
Beside, you could be going through a difficult time in your life and Your loved one could be coming to you in your dream as a way of reassuring you and offering their support in that difficult time.
We think now you need to relax, let the stress go. Learn how to accept and forget the past. If you continue to live well and be healthy, your Aunt on the sky will be very proud of you. Wish you health, peaceful and happy.
Thank you for taking the time to read this article !